A basic human need is the feel to be desired and loved by the members of the opposite sex. Finding your soulmate is easier than you think. No matter how many time’s you’ve struggled in the past, it’s possible to use the power of your subconscious mind to attract the love of your life.
Your current state of mind determines the quality of people that enter your life. If you are genuinely happy with your self it will be easy for you to attract like minded people to your life randomly. You send out positive vibrations from within and other like minded people can sense it and are drawn to you.
Unhappy and/or angry people repel from you and if you’re close to them you can feel it in your gut, that’s your subconscious warning, and you don’t want to spend your time with them. It feels draining, they try to bring you down to match their own vibration.
In order to raiser your level of vibration to attract a potential lover is by being perfectly in tuned with yourself. What i mean by this is that you have to be deep down completely confident and happy with your own self. You have to turn into a magnet that attracts the right person to you.
The typical strategy preached by many law of attraction guru’s is to visualize your soulmate and they will come to you. But this never works for everyone. In order for your wish to come true, you must truly believe that it’s possible to be able to attract a soulmate.
Any lingering doubt in your mind that you can’t attract your soul mate can be sensed by your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind does not grant any wish if it has any form of doubt associated with it.
Imagine having your own personal genie, he asks you that you can ask for any wish but as long as you truly believe it then the genie will make it happen. This is how your subconscious mind works. The doubts and insecurities that you have are called ‘limiting beliefs’.
The reason you haven’t met your soulmate yet is that you may have grown up with limiting beliefs about yourself. It may have come from constant bullying as a child from other kids at school or even from your own family. The constant negative reinforcements from them over and over becomes what you think about yourself.
You grow up with a lack of confidence and insecurity that puts in you in a low state of vibration. When you constantly tell yourself how low worth you are, it’s easy for the subconscious mind to accept this truth and make sure only negative situations and negative people are attracted to your life.
For the person that could be your future wife or husband, they will only be attracted in your life if you put out a positive vibration. This will only happen if you get rid of your limiting belief about your self image.
You can try to start positive affirmations, but the old prior feelings of yourself you’ve had are true strong to replace. Your subconscious mind will reject it and stick to your current negative belief about yourself.
There’s a powerful way to program your subconscious mind with new positive beliefs that bypasses your old negative ones. No matter how much you’ve doubted yourself in the past and in the present ,your subconscious mind will get the message and act upon it.